5 Financial Crossroads That Could Reshape Your Future
You know how life tends to throw in a few plot twists?
They don't ask if you're ready. They just show up—with potential financial consequences tagging along.
A layoff. A diagnosis. A parent who needs help. These moments don't come with instruction manuals. But they do come with price tags, deadlines, and decisions that can echo for years.
The good news? You don't have to wait until you're standing in the middle of a crossroad to start preparing for one.
Here are five turning points that tend to catch people off guard, and what you might consider doing before they arrive.
When a Marriage Ends
No one walks down the aisle planning for divorce. But it happens—and when it does, the financial fallout can unravel years of progress faster than most people expect.
Legal fees stack up quickly. For women especially, income often drops sharply after a split.1 And gray divorce—separating later in life—can hit retirement savings particularly hard, right when there's less time to recover.
The emotional weight is heavy enough. The financial side doesn't have to blindside you too.
If this transition is part of your story (or might be), consider taking inventory now: assets, beneficiaries, account access, retirement timelines. Knowing where you stand can help you move forward with more clarity.
When You Receive an Inheritance
An inheritance rarely arrives at a convenient time. It often shows up in the middle of grief, without warning, and with more questions than answers.
Here's what makes it harder: about two-thirds of high-net-worth parents haven't told their kids what they'll inherit—or whether they'll inherit anything at all.2 That silence can turn a meaningful gift into a source of confusion, guilt, or missed opportunity.
Before you act, pause. There's no rule that says you have to do something with the money immediately.
Cover any pressing tax obligations. Give yourself time to grieve. Then, when you're ready, think about what this inheritance could mean for your bigger picture—not just your bank account.
Intention beats impulse.
When Caregiving Calls
Stepping in for a parent or loved one is one of the most selfless things you can do. It's also one of the most financially draining—often in ways that creep up slowly.
Most family caregivers (close to 80%) spend an average of $7,200 a year out of pocket.3 Prescriptions. Gas. Home modifications. Time away from work. None of it hits all at once, but over months and years, the costs pile up. So does the strain.
Many caregivers don't realize they're sacrificing their own financial security until they're already stretched thin.
If caregiving is on your horizon (or already here), consider building it into your broader plan. What can you afford to give—financially, logistically, emotionally—without putting your own future at risk? That's not selfish. That's sustainable.
When Your Career Shifts
A new job can feel like a fresh start. New team, new energy, new possibilities.
But in the excitement, financial details can often slip through the cracks.
About one in three workers cash out their retirement accounts when they leave a job—potentially triggering taxes and penalties that chip away at years of saving.4 Others forget to enroll in benefits, miss health coverage gaps, or leave employer matches on the table.
The transition window is short. The impact can last decades.
Before you settle into the new routine, take a beat. Roll over your old 401(k). Review your new benefits. Adjust your goals if your salary changed. A few intentional moves now can keep your momentum pointed in the right direction.
When Retirement Arrives
Retirement is a destination most people spend decades working toward. But when it finally arrives, the sheer number of decisions can feel overwhelming.
When should you claim Social Security? Which accounts should you draw from first? How do you turn a pile of savings into reliable income that lasts?
Get any of these wrong, and you could end up paying more in taxes, running short sooner, or leaving benefits on the table.
The stakes are high—but so is the opportunity. A well-timed, well-structured plan can stretch your resources further and give you more flexibility to enjoy the life you've built.
Don't wait until you're already retired to think it through. It’s important to stress-test your strategy while you still have options.
Bringing It Together
Divorce. Inheritance. Caregiving. Career moves. Retirement.
These aren't just life events. They're inflection points—moments when emotions run high and financial decisions follow close behind.
You may not get to choose when they happen. But you can choose how prepared you are when they do.
Working with a financial professional can help you think through the "what ifs" before they become "what nows." It's not about having all the answers. It's about having a plan—and someone in your corner when life throws a curveball.
If change is already here, or just over the horizon, consider starting the conversation sooner rather than later.
You don't have to figure it out alone.
Sources:
- University of Michigan's Population Studies Center, 2025 [URL: https://psc.isr.umich.edu/news/research-shows-economic-consequences-of-divorce-in-the-us-vary-by-gender-race-and-ethnicity]
- CNBC, 2025 [URL: https://www.cnbc.com/2025/11/25/how-to-talk-to-your-adult-children-about-their-inheritance.html]
- AARP, 2024 [URL: https://www.aarp.org/pri/topics/ltss/family-caregiving/financial-supports-family-caregivers/]
- Yahoo! Finance, 2025 [URL: https://ca.finance.yahoo.com/news/why-its-easier-now-to-help-job-changing-americans-hang-on-to-their-savings-143319442.html]
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